While college often leads to a new city, a
new school, and new friends, your new college life doesn't have to come at the
expense of losing touch with your high school friends. But how exactly can you keep
in touch with your friends from high school when you're busy managing all that
college has to offer? Here are some tips to maintain those relationships that
you cherish so much, without sacrificing your study time and college
experience.
Use
social media. Things like Facebook and Twitter are
likely already a part of your social life. As you transition from high school
to college, use social media to keep your friends updated -- and to stay
updated about them. This will help you to stay informed about relationship
updates, school changes, and the overall ups and downs of your friends' lives.
Use
the phone and Skype or web chat. If you and your
friends all have iPhones, you have the option of Face Time, or on the computer
Skype and web chatting. While they don't have to happen frequently, phone calls
and video chats can be a great way to help you keep in touch with your high
school friends.
Use text
or IM. If you have a busy semester, you don't
necessarily have the time for a phone call or video chat. The solution?
Consider sending a quick text message to one of your high school friends just
to let them know you are thinking of them and are wondering how they are doing.
Use
email. E-mail can be a great tool—especially when
you need something to do to shift your brain away from that term paper or exam
studying for a bit! Consider spending a few minutes drafting an email to an old
high school friend to update them about your own college life while asking for
the latest news on their end.
Meet
up whenever possible. No matter how great
technology is, there's just nothing like a face-to-face meeting. Meeting up in
person is important if you'd like to maintain your high school relationships
both during and after college. Remember, too, that you can meet up in all kinds
of places: back in your hometown, at your campus, at your friend's campus, or
even somewhere fun you both have always wanted to go.
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